TMI Tuesday: Who's Counting?

It's time for another TMI Tuesday post! This time, the theme is counting sexual partners; how many I've had, whether I've had threesomes and more!

Kink of the Week: Collars

My second Kink of the Week post! This time focusing on a kink that I actually like: collars. This is actually a topic I have been trying to write about for a long time, but one that I kept getting distracted from or worried that it was boring. I even have two unfinished posts that discuss two different aspects of collars but I'm probably only going to finish one of them now.

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Photo courtesy of A Penny for Your Dirty Thoughts

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #47? Start with the newly updated rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

How to Shave Your Asshole

Tied and Blindfolded

Why Disney is like BDSM

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~

Because you are so beautiful

Suspension of Disbelief

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Dildology: The Science of Sex Toys

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Vagina Thief
The Role of Feelings in Swinging Lifestyle
Why I Feel No Jealousy
Spontaneous
I Asked SilverHubby to Respond to a Comment
Mastering Masturbation in 7 Steps
The One Where I Face Reality

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The Cycle of Change, Simplified
My IMsL 2013 Keynote

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Kink of the Week #5: Roleplay
How To find (and catch) a Male Submissive
How to be a Good female Sub
The Master's Voice
Kink of the Week #5: Roleplay
"S&M: The Dark Side of Gay Liberation", 1975
PolyAnna's Musings: Choosing Revisited
KOTW-Roleplay: W's Perspective
Brat-tastic!
Liberating the Fisherman's Wife
How much realism should be in BDSM erotica?

Erotic Fiction

Sunday Morning
Warehouse 69 Episode 2: The Marquis' Crop
Sunday Morning
Salivate
Suffer
Bend Over, Bad Kitty!
Dirty Sexy Money
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Four

Erotic Non Fiction

My First MMF Threesome
That Smile
What Wet Dreams are Made Of.....
A Good Match
I was a Naughty Girl
Jets
Right Here. Now.
I fantasize about blowjobs & being a good girl

Poetry

Things to Wear – NaPoWriMo
Blood Lust
A poem for Rose
Vanishing
Colorless
Subby Space

Blogging

Look at Me!

TMI Tuesday: Navigating Sex

It's time for another TMI Tuesday post! This time, the theme is navigating sex, which means talk of first loves, mono or poly, masturbation and sex!

TMI Tuesday: Masturbation Month 2013

After a few months of not being interested in the questions, it's time for another TMI Tuesday post! This time, the theme is masturbation, in reference to the 'May is Masturbation month' thing that'd been going around. Personally, that has been getting on my nerves and we're just under a week in!

Kink of the Week: Face-slapping

My first Kink of the Week post! I've been meaning to join in on this for a while but haven't managed to until today. I might go back and do some of the other topics later, since they're fun. In any case, the topic this week is face-slapping; a kink that may trigger some of you. If you have bad experiences with this kink I suggest you avoid this post.

Review: Sex & Mischief Red & Black Stripe Flogger

A tester item received from the awesome folks at ÜberKinky. I was sent this item in exchange for my honest review. Affiliate links have been used.

Rating: ★★★★☆ 4/5

"Another late review finally under my belt! I was sent this flogger ages ago by ÜberKinky, who have been extremely patient with me while I've gotten things sorted out. We opted for this flogger because we have broken every single one we've owned and wanted another to play with. When it first arrived, I was a bit worried it wouldn't be able to last in our care...

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Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #46? Start with the newly updated rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Bringing Toxic Sex Toy Facts Out of the Attic

How Do I Get My Wife to Dominate Me?

I Need This

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~

Speaking the unspeakable

#safetytipsforladies

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Easy Come Easy Go: A Look at Orgasm Control
I came before I was ready
Relationships and age difference
PolyAnna's Musings: Different is Good, Right?
Seriously Proud Queer
Spanking Kink of the Week
How to Be Good in Bed
A Thousand Small Unhappinesses
What's in a Number?
The Absence ofHow to Tell if a Man is Gay
Stop Shitting on the Bottoms

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

It's Not Misandry, You're a Douchebag

CatalystCon

Catalyst: How it Inspired

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Caning: To count or not to count
Slavery and Social Death, by O. Patterson
His Eyes Hungry. His Body Pleads: Use Me!
Toilet Whore
And then, I apologized.

Erotic Fiction

Wicked Wednesday: A little bit of confusion
The Moment
Detached
Waxing Lyrical
The "L" word
Gorge
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Three
Difficult

Erotic Non Fiction

Girl on Girl
The Moment I Felt Owned
Tasting Her
Acting on Instructions
Final Cruise
Quickie
A Lazy Sadistic Orgasm
I had 8 days of sex.
An hour together
Cheerful Disappointment
What is Erotic?
The Coin Flip
Playing with Adam
A Trip to the Hardware Store
Fall From Grace

Eroticon

A Somewhat Different Eroticon2013 4~part Post

Poetry

The Dark Place

I was a Naughty Girl

Last week I went to see Daddy, as I normally do. I really love spending time with him and it is always the highlight of my week. We often try to have fun together and while it isn't always D/s time, there is often some involved.

A major part of my submission to Daddy lies in service. If you like, you can read my essay on what it means to me. I also somewhat wrote about it in one of my answers to the 30 Days of Submission meme. As a refresher, service in our dynamic is like household chores or wearing what Daddy asks of me when he feels like it. It's about doing as I'm told to his standards without complaints.

Last week, I complained.

Review: Vibe Therapy Fascinate Silicone Duo Balls

I bought this toy myself a long time ago from sextoys.co.uk. I have reviewed it because I want to. This post contains affiliate links.

Rating: ★★☆☆☆ 2/5

"I bought these when they were on sale for about £10. I had wanted a kegel exerciser because I was curious about how they felt and the half price sale seemed perfect. I didn't really need them for medical reasons but I knew they were also good for tightening the vagina and giving pleasure, so I snapped them up.

If I had known what they were like, I wouldn't have.