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Sunday, 30 June 2013

ToaGS has MOVED!

ToaGS has MOVED!Sorry to spring this on you guys but I've moved my blog over to a new hosting service and domain. If you follow any bloggers on Twitter or have kept up with blog news, you'll already know that the reason for this lies with Blogger.

A few days ago, they decided they weren't going to allow affiliate links on adult blogs anymore and sent out some emails to a few people detailing that the changes would come into effect on the 30th June. I did not get one of these emails but saw the ruckus on Twitter and resigned myself to changing host and so on. The host I have moved to is HostGator, who were highly recommended by many bloggers.

I've transferred all my posts and comments onto WordPress.org so nothing has been left behind (except this post). All my old posts now link to the new ones, so hopefully people will be able to get to them through any links I can't change. My Twitter, Tumblr and Google+ page will remain unchanged and I have made sure my feed redirects to the new place to try and make it easier for you all.

If you don't use any of these methods, please update your bookmarks to http://www.thoughtsofagrowingsub.com!

Sunday, 16 June 2013

e[lust] 47

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Photo courtesy of Behind the Chintz Curtain

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #48? Start with the newly updated rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

This Scene Called Life

I Don't Give A Fig

9 Reasons You SHOULD Have Sex on a First Date

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~

Firm
East Side Exhibitionism

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Threesomes: Being a Good Little Unicorn

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Non-Fiction

Sexentric News and Public Cam-Sex Report
The Play's the Thing
Sadistic Bitch
It was a good night
Kink Chronicles - Panties
Quickie Afternoon Delight
"No, you don't!"
“Objectification” by Blacksilk
Best.Sex.Ever
So I Asked SilverHubby About Our Orgasms
For Pity's Sake, No
Like a Virgin
Three Ashes
His Princess and His Slut
I hope my neighbors got a show.

Poetry

Watching
I want to know You
Once Upon an 'O'

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Testosterone! Don't Leave Home Without it!
Why Modeling Is Poison
Should
On the swingset
Achievement Unlocked
How To Make A Woman Orgasm
Mutual Masturbation is Mother****ing Awesome!
The Wonder of Weddings
Introvert recovery
May is International Masturbation Month
Make love to yourself

Erotic Fiction

Fighting Spirit
Dinner is Served
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Five
Belle and Sandy
Babygirl Gets Caught

Writing about Writing

Beauty and the kebab

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Return of the Vulcan Penis Problem
Masturbation Mishaps, Introduction
"For Novelty Use Only"
BDSM Lexicon Entry #24: Aftercare

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Mad Men: the dominance of Don Draper
Wicked Wednesday - Knowing When to Say No
Why Do I Like Being Owned?
The difference between BDSM & Abuse


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Friday, 17 May 2013

e[lust] 46

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Photo courtesy of A Penny for Your Dirty Thoughts

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #47? Start with the newly updated rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

How to Shave Your Asshole

Tied and Blindfolded

Why Disney is like BDSM

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~

Because you are so beautiful

Suspension of Disbelief

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Dildology: The Science of Sex Toys

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Vagina Thief
The Role of Feelings in Swinging Lifestyle
Why I Feel No Jealousy
Spontaneous
I Asked SilverHubby to Respond to a Comment
Mastering Masturbation in 7 Steps
The One Where I Face Reality

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The Cycle of Change, Simplified
My IMsL 2013 Keynote

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Kink of the Week #5: Roleplay
How To find (and catch) a Male Submissive
How to be a Good female Sub
The Master's Voice
Kink of the Week #5: Roleplay
"S&M: The Dark Side of Gay Liberation", 1975
PolyAnna's Musings: Choosing Revisited
KOTW-Roleplay: W's Perspective
Brat-tastic!
Liberating the Fisherman's Wife
How much realism should be in BDSM erotica?

Erotic Fiction

Sunday Morning
Warehouse 69 Episode 2: The Marquis' Crop
Sunday Morning
Salivate
Suffer
Bend Over, Bad Kitty!
Dirty Sexy Money
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Four

Erotic Non Fiction

My First MMF Threesome
That Smile
What Wet Dreams are Made Of.....
A Good Match
I was a Naughty Girl
Jets
Right Here. Now.
I fantasize about blowjobs & being a good girl

Poetry

Things to Wear – NaPoWriMo
Blood Lust
A poem for Rose
Vanishing
Colorless
Subby Space

Blogging

Look at Me!

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Sunday, 21 April 2013

e[lust] 45

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Photo courtesy of CreativNooky

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #46? Start with the newly updated rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Bringing Toxic Sex Toy Facts Out of the Attic

How Do I Get My Wife to Dominate Me?

I Need This

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~

Speaking the unspeakable

#safetytipsforladies

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Easy Come Easy Go: A Look at Orgasm Control
I came before I was ready
Relationships and age difference
PolyAnna's Musings: Different is Good, Right?
Seriously Proud Queer
Spanking Kink of the Week
How to Be Good in Bed
A Thousand Small Unhappinesses
What's in a Number?
The Absence ofHow to Tell if a Man is Gay
Stop Shitting on the Bottoms

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

It's Not Misandry, You're a Douchebag

CatalystCon

Catalyst: How it Inspired

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Caning: To count or not to count
Slavery and Social Death, by O. Patterson
His Eyes Hungry. His Body Pleads: Use Me!
Toilet Whore
And then, I apologized.

Erotic Fiction

Wicked Wednesday: A little bit of confusion
The Moment
Detached
Waxing Lyrical
The "L" word
Gorge
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Three
Difficult

Erotic Non Fiction

Girl on Girl
The Moment I Felt Owned
Tasting Her
Acting on Instructions
Final Cruise
Quickie
A Lazy Sadistic Orgasm
I had 8 days of sex.
An hour together
Cheerful Disappointment
What is Erotic?
The Coin Flip
Playing with Adam
A Trip to the Hardware Store
Fall From Grace

Eroticon

A Somewhat Different Eroticon2013 4~part Post

Poetry

The Dark Place

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Saturday, 16 March 2013

e[lust] 44

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Photo courtesy of Plumptious Pea

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #45? Start with the newly updated rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Everyday D/s

Honesty sometimes feels like manipulation

Blood, life, sex

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~

Grief and Sex

Bringing Others into a Dom/Sub Relationship

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Adventures In… Lube-land
ORAL SEX, AS STANDARD AS THE WHEELS ON A CAR
PolyAnna's Musings: Radar Love
A productive morning
Livia Has a Crush
Terms of Fatness

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Thoughts: Feminism, Sexism and Submission

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Deep subspace - sexy or scary?
Django Unchained: the suffering black female
What the hell is 'NORMAL' sex anyway?
Before
All About the Collar
Dirty Little Secret
Honesty

Erotic Fiction

Master's Valentine's ToDo List
The Passion of First Encounters.
Ma'am's Turn (First Meeting Part 3)
Nipple torture and girl love
The Boundary
I'm in the Mood
Skin
Memories
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Two
Want
A Quick Preview

Erotic Non Fiction

Lindsey's Orgasm
Blog Jammin'
Postponing the Inevitable
Watching Has its Own Rewards
A Farewell Torment
Writhe
I want to lick your pussy
Cap D'Agde 2012 Foam Party
Dirty Hot
Eighty-Five Minutes
Saying Goodnight
Hundreds of orgasms
our open marriage- mina's date
1+1+1= My first threesome
Writing Sex Scenes
Beginnings and Endings
Glass Bottle
One Cole the Dane + One WeVibe Salsa = Orgasm

Blogging

Epiphora's beginner’s guide to sex toy review
Very Inspiring Blogger Award

Eroticon

Erotic Eroticon
Finessing Sex- A Snippet Of Fiction
Eroticon Highlights
Bite Me

Poetry

In the Back Seat of the Bus
Transmogrification
Gel├╝ste
Oiled Seduction

Relationship Haikus

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Monday, 4 March 2013

Desire and Pleasure Launch 'Sexy' Health Check Week

Sexy Health Check WeekThis is a press release for an issue that I think people need to pay attention to. There is a lot that can go wrong when it comes to sexual health that you may not notice when it is your own body. Your partner, however, may be able to see it. Daddy and I both check for these sorts of things all the time and are able to communicate when we notice things but not everyone has a relationship like ours. Sometimes telling someone something is strange can be very daunting or embarrassing, which is why this post has been made.

Desire and Pleasure, the online sex toy website run by sexual health charity FPA, have today launched 'Sexy Health Check Week' a campaign aimed at encouraging couples to make health checks an every day part of a their sex lives to help keep their partner healthy.

Sexual partners are in a great position to spot changes in their lover's body no matter how big or small.

Issues could be minor such as hygiene, smells, weight changes, skin rashes, allergies or more serious symptoms for testicular and breast cancer.

This new initiative from Desire and Pleasure encourages couples to get to know their partner's bodies and explains what changes to look for.

Their research shows that 23% of people say they have noticed minor changes on their own bodies, which has prompted them to go for a check-up with their doctor.

However, only 12% said that if they noticed any changes to their partner's body, that they would tell them about it.

This was mainly due to embarrassment with over half (54%) citing this as the main reason for keeping quiet. Other reasons included not thinking it was important (27%) or not wanting to have an awkward conversation.

Natika H Halil, Director of Information for FPA says; "The aim of Sexy Health Check Week is to encourage couples to explore each other's bodies and be open and honest with each other if they do notice anything.

There are so many campaigns out there for self-checks and self-diagnosis but nothing highlighting how knowing each others bodies as well as your own can be of benefit. Sex offers the perfect opportunity to do this, when couples are most intimate."

When you are enjoying some fun in the bedroom, here are key things to keep in mind;

1. It's better to be open and honest with your partner.
2. Talking about these things can be tricky, so choose a time to talk after you've had sex or been intimate.
3. They may be concerned by what you say but they'll be grateful you've told them about it.
...and more!

You can read the full campaign advice guide on the Desire and Pleasure website.

Saturday, 2 March 2013

Sex Toy Society – Edition 34

Sex Toy Society Review Directory

Welcome to Edition 34 of the Sex Toy Society round-up of all the sex toy reviews written by Society authors over the past week. A new giveaway is coming very soon!


Want to be included in next weeks edition? All you need to do is visit this page and submit your latest reviews and photographs before 11:59pm BST on Thursday 28th February 2013. Confused about our new submission system? No problem we%u2019ve created a step-by-step video to help.


You can also find us on Twitter for all the latest news on the Society.


Author Of The Week


Sex Toy Giveaways


Our giveaways section is back online it's filling up with some great giveaways! Below are some of the current running giveaways...

Vibrator Reviews
Dildo Reviews
Male Sex Toy Reviews

Sex Toys For Couples Reviews

Bondage Reviews

Other Reviews

Sunday, 17 February 2013

e[lust] 43

Becks and Her Kinks

Photo courtesy of Beck and Her Kinks

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #44? Start with the newly updated rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

P.S. Thank you for your patience while we find our way around here at e[lust] if we have made any mistakes (and surely we have) we will do our best to get it right the next time around.

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

misconceptions of dating polyamorous women

Compromise in D/s relationships

Writing Challenge - The Journey

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~

To shave or not to shave?

Of Human and Whore

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Non-Monogamy and Sex Toys – Safe Sharing Tips

A Man's Case for Being an Asshole

Thyroid function and sexuality

Property Renewal

SilverHubby: "On Being Fucked by You"

Pain In My Ass

Chivalry

Think Different

Open vs Poly

Escaping the Individual

To shave or not to shave?

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Is your sex toy review breaking the law?

Kink & Fetish

Good Boy

Breathe

Erotic Writing

Take me in

Downpour

A Naughty Nurse Setup!

Afternoon Delight

Sexy Single

Tender is the Night

Butch on Butch

A change of plan

Anal: The Final Frontier

When He Comes In My Mouth

Morning Surprise

Winter

Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part One

Simple

My dirty fantasy

Pleasure

The Peace of Wild Things

Camping Conquests

Collar & Lead

Eat Me

Shhh! Come Here!

The End of The World - Almost

Restraints For A Good Girl

Of Human and Whore

Silver Fox, Mynx, and the Hunter – Part VI: Take Two

A Story For Sir

Saturday, 16 February 2013

30 Days of Submission - Day 30

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Sex Toy Society – Edition 33

Sex Toy Society Review Directory

Welcome to Edition 33 of the Sex Toy Society round-up of all the sex toy reviews written by Society authors over the past week. Apologies for the delay on updates recently, our home life has been a little crazy lately but now we seem to be back on track!


Want to be included in next weeks edition? All you need to do is visit this page and submit your latest reviews and photographs before 11:59pm BST on Thursday 21st February 2013. Confused about our new submission system? No problem we%u2019ve created a step-by-step video to help.


You can also find us on Twitter for all the latest news on the Society.


Author Of The Week


Sex Toy Giveaways


We are very pleased to announce that our sex toy giveaway section is now back online! Coded from scratch it's a bit different from before but serves the same purpose. New giveaways include:

Vibrator Reviews
Dildo Reviews
Male Sex Toy Reviews

Sex Toys For Couples Reviews

Bondage Reviews

Erotic Books
Other Reviews

Friday, 1 February 2013

Sex Toy Society – Edition 32

Sex Toy Society Review Directory

Welcome to Edition 32 of the Sex Toy Society round-up of all the sex toy reviews written by Society authors over the past week. The winner of our recent $100 EdenFantasys giveaway has now been chosen and the winner is.... llellsee! Big thank you to everyone who has participated this week and a big congratulations to the winner. A new giveaway will be coming soon!


Want to be included in next weeks edition? All you need to do is visit this page and submit your latest reviews and photographs before 11:59pm BST on Thursday 7th February 2013. Confused about our new submission system? No problem we've created a step-by-step video to help.

You can also find us on Twitter for all the latest news on the Society.

Author Of The Week


Vibrator Reviews

Dildo Reviews
Male Sex Toy Reviews

Sex Toys For Couples Reviews

Bondage Reviews

Erotic Books
Other Reviews

30 Days of Submission - Day 16

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Saturday, 26 January 2013

30 Days of Submission - Day 10

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Sex Toy Society – Edition 31

Sex Toy Society Review Directory

Welcome to Edition 31 of the Sex Toy Society round-up of all the sex toy reviews submitted by Society authors over the past week. We'd like A huge thank you everyone for the large amount of support we had during the website issues. It really got us through the hard times when we felt most down.


$100 EdenFantasys Gift Card Giveaway


We are giving away a $100 gift card to one of our users. For a chance to win all you need to do is participate on the Society. Everything you do either it be add new reviews, photos, comments and even mention @sextoysociety on twitter will get you an entry. Every entry will give you more chance to win! Ends: Jan 31st


Want to be included in next weeks edition? All you need to do is visit this page and submit your latest reviews and photographs before 11:59pm BST on Thursday 31st January 2013. Confused about our new submission system? No problem we've created a step-by-step video to help.


You can also find us on Twitter for all the latest news on the Society.


Author Of The Week


Free Sex Toys with Giveaways


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Vibrator Reviews

Dildo Reviews
Male Sex Toy Reviews

Sex Toys For Couples Reviews

Bondage Reviews

Erotic Books
Other Reviews